Often people come to me telling me that they’re on board with a more “gentle” approach, but their partner isn’t. Or that they listen to all the podcasts, read all the books, do all the things… but their partner won’t.
Parents ask me all the time “does the fact that we have different approaches harm our kids?? Shouldn’t we be on the same page?”
Maybe you’re the one who is reading the articles (or instagram posts…) and sending them to your spouse. You’d like your spouse to read them but they don’t. Or they do read them, but don’t take action based on what they saw.
In my many years of working with families, I know one things is true: Two adults raising kids together have never fully been on the same page.
And, I’ll tell you what else is true: There are only a few things that matter, that you need to agree to, in order for things to feel stable for your kids.
You both need a system for understanding what’s important and what isn’t, and where you can differ and where you’d better get on the same page. Then, once you know that, you need to understand how to get on the same page.
That’s where Raising Resilient Kids comes in.
I didn’t set out to create a course that has parents saying things like this, but this is what they say:
“I’m more connected to my husband than ever before. Seriously.”
“We’re on the same page regularly. It’s such a difference. We feel like we’re operating from the same playbook.”
“Finally I’m not the keeper-of-information! We’re both learning side by side, and that’s been so good for our relationship.”
Raising Resilient Kids allows you and your partner to get on the same page where it matters, and accept each others differences where it doesn’t.
It allows you both to operate from the same playbook and join together as students. Your spouse didn’t do the homework? Not your problem! I’ll follow up with them. They have questions about the material? Don’t worry, I’ll answer. It’s so helpful for the two of you to sit at the same side of the desk and allow someone else to be the “keeper-of-information” (as one parent put it).
Joining Raising Resilient Kids sets you up for less agitation, more love and connection. Not just with your kids, but for your whole family, partner very much included.
To join, book a clarity call with me to see if my program is the right fit for your family.
