I was talking to parents last week about their 11-year-old who seems to lack motivation in school and at home. He’ll start his homework and leave it after a few questions. Or, he’ll put off writing a paper until the very last minute, even though his mom has been bugging him to write the darn […]
This is true for our kids. Whoever we decide they are, is who they will be. What does this have to do with helping and resilience? Last week, we talked about pausing before correcting/helping your child in order for you to see if your help is necessary. (you can find that information here.) We know […]
Let’s talk about tests. We want our kids to do well on tests. Yesterday, I had two conversations that I didn’t think were related, but were. One was with a mother who has a son in third grade and test prep has been coming up in his school. He goes to a really high-performing school […]
[Read a previous post on: Coby’s Story During The Resilient Reader Program] I’ve been doing a lot of reading about attention lately. How to keep it, how to use it, how to stop checking if I got a new text while I’m typing this blog.. In my reading, I learned a term for something we […]
[Read a previous post on: Reading is more than an Academic Subject] You may have seen this recent New York Times article, or this New Yorker article, on the literacy crisis in this country. Currently, only 37% of 4th graders are reading at or above grade level. 63% of fourth graders are below grade level […]
[Read a previous post on: Turning Reluctant Readers into Resilient Readers] This is me as a kid. And, I have a secret to tell you… I was a bad student. I was the kind of student who constantly got calls home with well-meaning declarations from teachers: “she has much potential” but “she just needs to […]
[Read a similar post on: Normalizing Mistakes] The other day, a parent said to me “I know it’s my fault that my daughter is such a perfectionist.” I could tell that she was feeling so guilty. Like all of us feel when we see characteristics we don’t love in ourselves show up in the tiny humans […]
[Read a similar post on: Meaningful, Fun, Celebration] I’ve been thinking about taking pride in the small stuff. Not waiting until a big accomplishment, but noticing the small wins along the way. For our kids who are struggling with a subject in school, particularly in reading, it can feel like until everything is right, nothing […]